1. Why is there no such thing as a “right” answer?
The reason there is no “right” answer is that the answer to what is asked is only one perspective from the person or group that asked it. What people like, what they enjoy, and what they want to do differs from person to person. In academics or work, simply answering what is asked of you in a way that is appropriate only makes you appear good as a person. Trying to appear good to your parents, colleagues, occupation, gender, position, role, etc., can lead to mental and physical strain, fatigue, and suffering. This is because you cannot freely do what you like, what you enjoy, and what you want to do.
Living within the discipline and order demanded by individuals and groups―such as “you must earn money,” “you must be accepted by others,” and “you must not be seen as incompetent or bad”―excludes those who cannot or do not conform to these expectations. Discipline and order are necessary for society; without them, crime, incidents, and accidents will increase, people’s lives will be disrupted, and they will be unable to live safely and securely. Crimes and incidents occur because the minds and bodies of those who commit them are suffering and in pain. Accidents occur because the minds of those involved are suffering and in pain.
Rules are necessary in society. Everyone wants to live more safely and securely. However, the question is how to create a system that forgives and supports those who cannot or do not follow these rules, rather than excluding them. Instead of using force to enforce rules or strengthening penalties, it’s about creating an environment where communication with others is unavoidable.
The root cause of emotional turmoil lies in the individual experiencing it―anger, anxiety, and other negative feelings towards those who disregard or are unable to follow social rules. The challenge lies in confronting these fluctuating emotions caused by something unpleasant, and changing one’s perspective and viewpoint so that the unpleasant situation ceases to be unpleasant. Seeking change or taking action outside of one’s own mind when experiencing emotional turmoil will not resolve the underlying cause.
The only way to create a system of forgiveness and support for those who disregard or are unable to follow social rules is for each individual to change their own mindset when their emotions are shaken.
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